as His leather boy


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If you haven't done so already, read what I expect in a Daddy / boy relationship.

If you think you can honestly offer what I require, read on.

In order for me to consider you for training, there is a lot of information that I must have to help ensure that we would both get our needs and wants met. Answer all of the following questions. Some of them are going to be of a very personal nature, and possibly things you have never shared with anyone else. If I am to take you on as my boy -- as my property -- then I need to know this information. I give you my word that regardless of our agreeing to your servicing my needs or not, none of this information will ever be shared with anyone else other than my life partner Tom.

As I explain in my Daddy / boy relationship essay, Tom is my life partner. We support each other wholeheartedly. Tom knows I have a desire to be served by a leather boy. I get off on having men submit to me. But ideally, the leather boy I am seeking would be a long-term addition of a third to our relationship. Not on a live-in basis, but as a 24-hours-a-day, 7-days-a-week, 365-days-a-year basis whenever we are together, be that physically or mentally (such as in e-mail, for example).

I want my boy to know he belongs to me.

If you are chosen for training, there will be a suitable trial period to help ensure that both of us are getting our needs met through this relationship.

Now, on with getting to know each other.



  1. Complete name (first, middle, last)
  2. Complete address
  3. If the above is not a Houston-area address, can you come to Houston on a monthly basis? If not, please explain any limitations (financial inability, caretaking commitment, etc.)
  4. Phone number
  5. Date of birth
  6. Place of birth
  7. Driver's license number & state
  8. Social Security number
  9. Highest education completed. If you have a degree(s), what is it in?
  10. Religious upbringing &: current spiritual preference



  11. Of the vast population of leather folk, why are you petitioning to be my boy?
  12. What do you seek in a Daddy/boy relationship?
  13. What is your favorite sexual fantasy?
  14. What is your favorite leather/SM fantasy?
  15. The current sexual interests section will give me tidbits about your sexual background. Give me the broad overall picture.
  16. Describe your family growing up and now. How many siblings are there? Are your parents still alive? Where do they live and how are they cared for?
  17. What do you bring to my family?



  18. What are you looking for in a Daddy/boy relationship?
  19. Describe the Daddy of your dreams.
  20. Do you have a problem with calling your Daddy "SIR" at all times?
  21. If so, when would you feel uncomfortable calling him "SIR"?
  22. When you do something wrong, do you freely admit it?
  23. After a relationship has begun, are you willing to express your situation, distresses, and reservations when asked?



  24. Race
  25. Height
  26. Weight
  27. Waist size
  28. Facial hair (none / moustache / goatee / beard)
  29. Chest hair (none / light / medium / full)
  30. Back hair (none / light / medium / heavy / gorilla)
  31. Leg hair (none / light / medium / heavy)
  32. Color of hair
  33. Hair length (short / medium / long)
  34. Color of eyes
  35. What do you think is your best physical feature?
  36. Cock length -- soft in inches
  37. Cock length -- erect in inches



  38. Do you smoke? If so, how much?
  39. Do you drink? If so, how much? How often?
  40. Do you use prescription drugs? If so, what?
  41. Do you use illegal drugs? If so, what?
  42. Have you participated in any substance abuse or 12-Step programs? If yes, describe.
  43. HIV status
  44. If HIV negative, date of last test
  45. If HIV positive, estimated year of infection
  46. If HIV positive, latest viral load and T4 counts with approximate date
  47. If HIV positive, have you ever had any opportunistic infections? If so, what?
  48. Do you have any mental problems (including bipolar disorder, manic/depressive)?
  49. Have you been -- or are you being -- treated for depression? If currently, how?
  50. Do you have any disabilities (visible or invisible)?
  51. Do you have any physical limitations which might affect activities? (For example, a bad back might affect work assigned. Sinus problems/nose congestion might impact how one responds to having one's mouth gagged.)
  52. Approximately when was your last dental checkup?
  53. Are there any other health concerns that I haven't touched on? If so, what?



  54. What is your housing situation (own home, rent home, rent apartment, rent apartment with roommate, etc.)?
  55. Type of employment? (full time, part time, free-lance, independent contractor, on disability, unemployed)
  56. Where do you work?
  57. What do you do?
  58. Normal work schedule
  59. Approximate annual income
  60. What outstanding debts do you have?
  61. Do you own a car?



  62. Do you live with someone else? If so, what is the nature of this relationship?
  63. How old were you when you had your first experience with sex? What was it?
  64. If different from above, how old were you when you had your first experience with another man? What was it?
  65. How old were you when you had your first SM, B&D, Daddy/boy or Master/slave experience? What was it?
  66. What types of relationships have you experienced previously (dating, lovers, Daddy/boy, Master/slave, straight, etc.)?
  67. List the serious relationships you have been in and explain why they ended. Include what your part in each breakup was.
  68. Have you ever been unfaithful to a lover or a Daddy in the past?
  69. Have you ever raised your hand or hit a friend, sex partner, or lover? If so, why?
  70. Is there any reason why you would not be able to commit 100% as a boy (past, present or future reason)?
  71. Have you ever exited a relationship without telling the other person face to face? If so, why?
  72. Have you ever made your sex partner/Daddy mad intentionally? If so, why?



  73. Please fill out a play partner checklist and submit it along with this petition.
  74. Rate yourself on the nine degrees of submission and submit it along with this petition. Explain your rating.



  75. Have you violated any law in the last two years? If so, describe.
  76. Have you ever been arrested? If so, nature of arrest.
  77. When would you be available to visit with your prospective Daddy?
  78. List any other subjects or topics you feel are relevant to this petition.


    Let me reiterate to you that all the questions MUST be answered HONESTLY. I will keep ALL this information confidential. Not all items in the play partner checklist are necessarily scenes that I get into, or would be a requirement on your part. I realize that the information required may seem excessive, and possibly scary, but it is necessary in order for me to determine if we would suit one another's needs.

    In uniform,
    Officer Wes


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